>> Verses to Scan (NIV)
- Proverbs 11:13 A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy man keeps a secret.
- 2 Corinthians 12:20 For I am afraid that when I come I may not find you as I want you to be, and you may not find me as you want me to be. I fear that there may be quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, factions, slander, gossip, arrogance and disorder.
- James 3:9-12 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be. Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? My brothers, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.
>> Websites to check
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- www.christianitytoday.com/cl/2001/003/4.32.html. A true story about the painful effects of gossip, and some ideas on how to confront it.
- http://www.relevantmagazine.com/modules.php?op=modload&name=News&file=article&sid=849 “Six Ways to Throw a Gossip,” practical advice for dealing shutting down gossip.
>> Thoughts to Ponder
- Many times when we cut others down, we’re really trying to build ourselves up. Check your heart—what’s motivating you to say cruel things about others? Jealousy? Insecurity? Anger? Deal with the heart issue rather than deflecting the attention away from of you (see Matthew 12:34).
>> Books to Read
- Lockers, Lunch Lines, Chemistry, and Cliques by Susie Shellenberger and Greg Johnson, tips on school survival dealing with crowds, gossip, friends, your reputation, etc.
Find out how to buy this... - The Problem of Gossip by F. Franklin Wise, information on gossip and its negative effects.
Find out how to buy this... - Grapevine: The Spirituality of Gossip by Jerry Camery-Hoggart, more information about gossip.
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